بلسم
01-07-2009, 08:28 AM
هناك عشرة أسرار تجذب الأشخاص بإتجاهك
أسباب تجذب الناس اليك
موضوع جميل جدا اطرحه عليكم لما فيه من الفائدة..........
** هناك عشرة أسرار تجذب الأشخاص بإتجاهك **
1- الأخــــلاق :
كن خلوقاً تنل ذكراً جميلاً.
يقول الرسول عليه الصلاة والسلام:
(أكملالمؤمنين إيماناً أحسنهم خلقاً ، الموطؤون أكتافاً ، الذينيألفون ويؤلفون، ولا خير فيمن لا يألف ولا يؤلف).
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2. الاهتمام :
اظهراهتمامك بالآخرين حتى يظهروا الاهتمام بك.
يقول الشاعر
أحسن إلى الناس
تستعبد قلوبهم فطالما استعبد الإنسانَ إحسانُ
أحسن إذا ما كان إمكان
ومقدرة فلن يدوم على الإنسان إمكان.ُ
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3. التفاؤل والحماس .
قال الرسول عليه الصلاة والسلام:
(تفاءلوا بالخير تجدوه).
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4. التواضع :
تواضع لكلالناس.
قال الشاعر :
تواضع تكن كالنجم لاح لناظر على صفحات الماء وهورفيع
ولا تك كالدخان يعلو بنفسه على طبقـــات الجو وهووضيــع.
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5. الحلم :
لاتغضب أبداً.
قال الرسول عليه الصلاةوالسلام:
(ليس الشديد بالصرعة إنما الشديد الذي يملك نفسه عندالغضب).
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6. الابتسامة :
وهي ما يسمى أيضاً بالسحر الحلال.
يقول الرسول عليه الصلاة والسلام:
(تبسمكفي وجه أخيك صدقة)
ويقول جرير بن عبدالله رضي الله عنه :
ما حجبني رسول اللهعليه الصلاة والسلام منذ أسلمت ولارآني إلاَ تبسَم في وجهي.
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7. التهادي :
لا تنسى تقديم الهدايا (رمزالصداقة)
قال الله تعالى :
'وإذا حييتم بتحيةٍ فحيوا بأحسن منها أو ردوها' سورة النساء الآية 86.
وقال الرسول عليه الصلاة والسلام:
(تهادواتحابوا).
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8. الأناقه:
اهتم بشكلك ومظهرك.
يقول الله تعالىفي محكم تنزيله :
'يا بني آدم خذوا زينتكم عند كل مسجد وكلو واشربوا ولا تسرفواإنه لا يحب المسرفين'سورة الأعرافالآية 31.
يقول عليه الصلاةوالسلام:
(أن الله جميل يحب الجمال الكبر بطر الحق وغمط الناس).
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9. التحدث :
أتقن فن الكلام.
يقول عليه الصلاةوالسلام
(من كان يؤمن بالله واليوم الآخر فليقل خيراً أو ليصمت).
ويقولكذلك:
(الكلمة الطيبة صدقة).
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10. الإنصات :
أتقن فن الإستماع والإصغاء.
ذكر عن عطاء بن رباحأحد العلماء أنه قال :
إن الشاب ليحدثني حديثاً فاستمع له كأني لم أسمعه وقد سمعتهقبل أن يولد.
'
من أراد أن ينصف الناس من نفسه فليحب لهم ما يحب لنفسه '
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أسباب تجذب الناس اليك
موضوع جميل جدا اطرحه عليكم لما فيه من الفائدة..........
** هناك عشرة أسرار تجذب الأشخاص بإتجاهك **
1- الأخــــلاق :
كن خلوقاً تنل ذكراً جميلاً.
يقول الرسول عليه الصلاة والسلام:
(أكملالمؤمنين إيماناً أحسنهم خلقاً ، الموطؤون أكتافاً ، الذينيألفون ويؤلفون، ولا خير فيمن لا يألف ولا يؤلف).
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2. الاهتمام :
اظهراهتمامك بالآخرين حتى يظهروا الاهتمام بك.
يقول الشاعر
أحسن إلى الناس
تستعبد قلوبهم فطالما استعبد الإنسانَ إحسانُ
أحسن إذا ما كان إمكان
ومقدرة فلن يدوم على الإنسان إمكان.ُ
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3. التفاؤل والحماس .
قال الرسول عليه الصلاة والسلام:
(تفاءلوا بالخير تجدوه).
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4. التواضع :
تواضع لكلالناس.
قال الشاعر :
تواضع تكن كالنجم لاح لناظر على صفحات الماء وهورفيع
ولا تك كالدخان يعلو بنفسه على طبقـــات الجو وهووضيــع.
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5. الحلم :
لاتغضب أبداً.
قال الرسول عليه الصلاةوالسلام:
(ليس الشديد بالصرعة إنما الشديد الذي يملك نفسه عندالغضب).
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6. الابتسامة :
وهي ما يسمى أيضاً بالسحر الحلال.
يقول الرسول عليه الصلاة والسلام:
(تبسمكفي وجه أخيك صدقة)
ويقول جرير بن عبدالله رضي الله عنه :
ما حجبني رسول اللهعليه الصلاة والسلام منذ أسلمت ولارآني إلاَ تبسَم في وجهي.
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7. التهادي :
لا تنسى تقديم الهدايا (رمزالصداقة)
قال الله تعالى :
'وإذا حييتم بتحيةٍ فحيوا بأحسن منها أو ردوها' سورة النساء الآية 86.
وقال الرسول عليه الصلاة والسلام:
(تهادواتحابوا).
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8. الأناقه:
اهتم بشكلك ومظهرك.
يقول الله تعالىفي محكم تنزيله :
'يا بني آدم خذوا زينتكم عند كل مسجد وكلو واشربوا ولا تسرفواإنه لا يحب المسرفين'سورة الأعرافالآية 31.
يقول عليه الصلاةوالسلام:
(أن الله جميل يحب الجمال الكبر بطر الحق وغمط الناس).
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9. التحدث :
أتقن فن الكلام.
يقول عليه الصلاةوالسلام
(من كان يؤمن بالله واليوم الآخر فليقل خيراً أو ليصمت).
ويقولكذلك:
(الكلمة الطيبة صدقة).
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10. الإنصات :
أتقن فن الإستماع والإصغاء.
ذكر عن عطاء بن رباحأحد العلماء أنه قال :
إن الشاب ليحدثني حديثاً فاستمع له كأني لم أسمعه وقد سمعتهقبل أن يولد.
'
من أراد أن ينصف الناس من نفسه فليحب لهم ما يحب لنفسه '
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